Wednesday, July 16, 2014

Back to My Past




OK, round two of my South Dakota/Wyoming vacation recap...I know hearing about other people's vacations is always everyone's top priority!  Last week Justin went to visit his company's office in Sheridan, WY, and I went with him.  And we went without Ben and Tessa.  YEEE HAW!  It was fabulous.  I read two books.  TWO BOOKS in three days!!!  I used to do that all the time but not lately.  On Wednesday morning I brought Ben and Tessa to Justin's mom and then returned to Bismarck quickly to pack.  It is during this moment that I spend approximately an hour in our house by myself!  Tee hee hee...I don't think I have ever been in this house by myself. 
 
This trip was especially interesting to me because we were going to be visiting the land of my early childhood.  When I was in preschool through first grade my family lived in Gillette, WY, and the Black Hills and all of their attractions were a regular vacation destination for us.  The order of our trip was as follows: 
-Sheridan, WY
-Gillette, WY
-Mount Rushmore
-Deadwood, SD
-MN Lakes country and diapers, tantrums and screaming
 
As we set off on Wednesday afternoon the diapers and tantrums seemed delightfully far away.  We stopped at the Painted Canyon visitor's center in Western ND on the way.  I knew we were truly in Western ND when I saw the signs around the area telling people to clean up after their dogs and their horses if they happened to be riding horses.  There are lots of riding trails around the canyon.
 

 
Believe it or not, I can't remember ever stopping at this scenic diversion even though I travel West on I-94 at least once a year if not more.  Usually the trip is in winter, so I guess it wouldn't be as fun in the cold and snow. 
 
We arrived in Laramie just as the sun was going down but I have to say that the highway that runs between I-94 and I-90 is sure beautiful.  It seems deserted but the farms and fields are lush and green so you know someone is there.  It was almost too dark to see the Big Horn Mountains as they came into view but I knew I could see them in the morning. 
 
Laramie is a really fun city.  If you imagine what Wyoming might be like this is it! 
 
 
Our hotel and Justin's office were on opposite ends of the main street (called Main St.!) and while Justin was at the office I visited every cute boutique and bookstore and coffee shop.  We at lunch on a patio and I drank beer (yeaahhh!) and that afternoon after I got sick of shopping I sat in the hotel room and read for several hours.  I was in heaven.  That night we visited a local brewery and ate at a restaurant and sat at the bar (no need for high chairs or booster seats!). 
 
The next morning we headed off toward the Black Hills.  On the way, we stopped in Gillette to see the places of my childhood.  We lived their from 1987-1989.  I remember a cozy neighborhood where we walked to the pool and the park and school and that is what we found to still be there. 
 
I attended Stocktrail Elementary school I found the address when I searched on the Internet for it. It was on the map that Google gave me.  When we were in the neighborhood we drove around in circles trying to find Stocktrail and finally asked some women on coffee break stroll and they informed us that it had been torn down three years ago! 
 
 


There it is, the former Stocktrail!  I guess they tore it down because it was old. I don't remember it being that old (even though I know that was like 25 years ago).  I would guess it was from the 1950's or 1960's.  They built a new elementary school at a different location and might build another new one at this location.  The population of Gillette has doubled since we lived there so I guess it is no surprise that the school situation has changed.

Here is a picture of the back yard of our old house from the alley.  That garage was not there back then and the yard seemed much larger without it. We had one of those metal 1980' era A-frame swing sets back there.





There is the front!  I tried to be discreet since I didn't want to make anyone uncomfortable with seeing an out of state vehicle with people snapping pictures of random houses through the windows.  It is not a big house but it seemed huge to me as a little kid in elementary school.  My parents did a lot of renovations and finished the basement.  I remember the day we left it for the last time before my family moved overseas and then back to ND and it was really sad.  I rang the doorbell but no one was home.  I wish I could have seen the interior and met them but oh well, another time. 

After leaving Gillette, on the way to Mt. Rushmore, we drove by Crazy Horse and decided to stop for a quick visit. 

 
 
I remember being here in the 80s and not really understanding what was going on.  I guess I thought that the white chalk drawings on the side of the mountain were what we were there to see.  This huge carving has a very interesting history dating back to the 1940s that is too long for me to get into now.  If you care you can look it up!  Basically the sculptor started work with nothing but himself and some carving tools and dynamite.  He lived at the base of the mountain and he and his wife raised 10 children there who all were involved with the work.  He has died but the work goes on.  The face was finished in 1998. 


 
It is taking so long because they refuse government funding and the whole thing has been paid for by private donations.  It really is huge.  That tunnel under the pointing arm is thirty stories high!
 
We finally arrived at Mt. Rushmore as the skies were clouding up.  I saw it as a little kid just like the rest of the Black Hills attraction but Justin never had.  We walked through the huge pavilion leading to the observation area and started taking pictures. 



 
After taking a few pictures of the faces and one of me with the faces the camera battery died.  Lovely.  So we found a wall outlet in a staircase and Justin watched the charger while I went to get us ice cream cones.  While I was waiting in line for all the pokey families to rattle off their specific orders (too bad for them having to deal with their little kids! Tee hee...) it started pouring rain outside so Justin had to take cover.  Everyone packed into the indoor food court and gift shop and soon we were ready to get out of there.  Mt. Rushmore is kind of a tourist trap.  There were many large groups of foreign tourists similar to the groups of tourists I saw in Europe.  I'm not knocking it because I have been a tourist too but throngs of people all trying to photograph the same scene gets pretty annoying. 
 
I hope we can visit Mt. Rushmore again.  It is an amazing sight and makes you feel proud and patriotic. There are trails that you can hike around there to get different views and that would have been fun if it hadn't been pouring rain.
 
 I kept thinking of the line from the movie "Drop Dead Gorgeous", where contestant Becky Lehman, played by Denise Richards, pays tribute to Mt. Rushmore:
 
 
"I chose Mount Rushmore, 'cause to live in a country where you can take an ugly old mountain and put faces on it, faces of great Americans who did so much to make our country super great, well that makes me, Rebecca Leeman, proud to be an American!"
 
Well said, Becky Leeman, it is super great...


Sorry Justin, I got the last picture before the battery died!

Our next stop was Deadwood, SD.  Deadwood is a Black Hills tourist town nested in a deep valley.  It is basically one main street lined with attractions.  I have seen a lot of mixed reviews about Deadwood these last few weeks on social media.  Some people love it and some people don't.  I think the consensus is that Deadwood is just a bunch of crappy casinos and bars with over the top old west themes and it is no fun for kids.  Well, no fun for kids usually means fun for adults so I found that I loved Deadwood! 


 
We missed the staged old west outlaw gun fight on the street but there were references to Wild Bill Hickok (who was shot in Deadwood) and his friends everywhere.  The building where he was shot is still there. 

 
It's no Vegas but it still looked pretty lit up at night!
 
We got busy doing "Deadwood" type activities and went to a casino, drank, and then took some "Old West" portraits.  The costume girls did not seem very impressed with my body in a corset (my costumer said, with a dismayed face, "I will try to make this more sexy" as she pulled and adjusted it...) but the black and white edit covers many flaws. 
 
 
 
These look kind of distorted...we don't have a digital copy so I took a picture of the pictures with my phone.  This activity is extra gimmicky an overpriced but is definitely something fun to do every once and a while! 
 
As the night went on I was pretty pleased with myself for not losing any money in the slot machines.  I won $20, then lost it, then won again but was disappointed with myself when I lost $8 while Justin was playing black jack.  I stopped before really going in the hole but got bored and put my $12 ticket in some Egyptian themed penny slot machine and...

 
Yeaaaaahh!  I am still kind of gloating about this.  And it really was almost all profit!  It made me fell validated for the shopping I did in Sheridan.  Justin won some cash at black jack too, and we made our exit before we were tempted to gamble any more. 
 
I already hope to return to this area next year.  As the kids get older I know it will be fun with them too.  There are many water and theme parks and animal oriented attractions that I loved as a kid.  Reptile Gardens, anyone?  Bear Country?  Flintstone Village?  Its all great! 

Tuesday, July 15, 2014

Eeeeeeeeeehh F&%$

So, I just spent wayyyyy to much time creating a post about our recent vacation and it was full of clever stories and jokes and I was posting pictures from my phone and also my computer and I went in to the phone app to add one last picture and when I saved that edit all of the words I wrote and pictures from the computer disappeared.  HOLY CRAP I JUST WASTED A NAP TIME ON SOMETHING THAT I LOST!  OK, I am going cry now and try to do something productive with the few minutes I have left.  UGHHHH.

Here is a picture of Mount Rushmore as a preview of what you were supposed to see. 

Tuesday, July 8, 2014

7-4-2014

The 4th of July is behind us again.  It was the same as it is every year, which, in this situation, is why I like it so much!  Dances, parades, demo derbys, and lakes mixed with beer and junk food and general outdoor fun...it makes a perfect summer holiday! 
 
A few things were different this year.  I had two babies to maneuver to their babysitter on street dance night instead of one.  My cousin has a baby now.  I happened not to be pregnant this year (2 out of the last four!) but my sister and standard 4th drinking partner is.  Also there is a new (and improved and airconditioned!) farm house and a newly finished lake house.  Bathrooms!  SO MANY BATHROOMS! 
 
Tessa spent some time with her baby cousin.  They have only met once before. 

 
 
She couldn't resist the hospital issue green pacifier! 
 
Ben realized this year that small town parades are just huge candy and novelty grabs and he caught a bucket (a novelty from an elevator that is also intended for farmers to use for their moisture test samples during harvest) and then we filled it to the brim with candy.  Then Ben kept skimming off of it all afternoon and then we hid it and he found it and basically ate nothing but crap all day. 



 
The parade order was the same as always:  The veterans marching the flags, police escorts, fire trucks and rescue vehicles, random classic cars, family groups, politicians, teams and businesses, old tractors, and horses.  We all know why the horses go last!
 
 
Happy birthday USA!
 
 
 
The usual parade silliness...
 
Crazy altered tractor pull tractors...


 
A huge cow float.  The cow used to be on the roof of a grocery store.

 
This pickup used to be Justin's!  A teenager purchased it and apparently he is on the baseball team.

 
A implement dealership was throwing out a limited number of miniature tractor keychains and they threw one right to Ben!  He loves his "tiny tractor"!
 
Here are a few pictures of Tessa and my cousin's daughter Lauren in their 4th of July red, white and blue.
Tessa and Uncle Pete.






Poor Lauren!  Just wait, Tessa, until she can crawl!

The demolition derby was nice this year.  The weather was pleasant and cool instead of 95 degrees and like a sauna like usual so sitting outside was enjoyable.  It was kind of short because there weren't many cars entered compared to other years.  Apparently the prophesies are coming true...old crappy cars with metal bodies from the 70's and 80's are dwindling in supply as the fiberglass cars of the 90's become the crappy cars of today.  Also, there are more derbies happening each summer because it is a popular summer activity (?).  To add an extra heat there was a round with pickups this year.  I guess they are the wave of the derby future! 

Feast your eyes...they are about to be smashed!
 
We took Ben this year.  It was Justin's idea.  I was hesitant because it was during his usual nap time and could have turned into a nightmare.  However, it went fine.  He wore his ear protection that he wears at football games and was quite mesmerized by the cars. 

 
Eventually, after a brief fussy period where he was alternating between clinging to my mom and trying to run around, the best case scenario happened:

 
Poor tired boy...
 
After the derby and supper we headed to MN to the lake.  We got there just in time to take in everyone's fireworks displays and it sounded like an awesome, patriotic warzone.  Complaining about other people's fireworks is rampant on social media but you will never hear me complain about enjoying someone else's $100's go up in a blaze of glory.  I also love the smell of gun power in the air. 
 
Tessa loved playing around outside all weekend. 
 
 
She's on the prowl for sticks and grass to shove into her mouth!
 
Ben had some water adventures.  He went kayaking with whoever would take him which he loved.  He doesn't look gleeful because he is mesmerized. 

That's his cousin Blake in there and yes he's got a fake pirate sword!

 
Ben and Dada kayaking.

This is my brother in law water skiing.  He's pretty good at it. 

 
Yes, he's only using one ski as he zooms all over the lake.  I waterskied too, for the first time in two years.  I got up on the first try, made it pretty far, lost control and let go of the rope when the boat was turning over it's own choppy water, face planted and lost both skis when I was trying to get up in the choppy water, and finally got back up and made it back to the dock.  I have it in mind to overcome my mental issues with skiing over the wake when turning.  The one ski thing...I don't know about that ever happening!
 
Speaking of water skiing, my arms are very sore from my short spin around the lake.  The places that are sore are muscles that never feel sore from anything else.  Mainly, the dreaded "batwing" area of flab on the inside of the upper arms are burning.  This is an area every woman wants to improve.  I need to find out what kind of weight lifting will simulate the motions of water skiing. 
 
So, now that the Monday after a 4 day weekend buzzkill has passed, I have another trip to look forward to because Justin and I are going to Wyoming tomorrow.  He has to go to work and I am going with.  My family used to live in Wyoming and travelled all around the area on vacations when I was young (like 4,5,6 years old young).  We are going to visit the city we used to live in and maybe see Mount Rushmore on the way back.  Because of this, I won't be writing on here until next week so this is the time that I am going to share some monumental news...
 
BEN WHIZZED IN THE TOILET LAST NIGHT!  I am so excited about this.  Potty training is very intimidating to me and it is hard to imagine him ever not wearing diapers and I am in such a diaper groove that it's almost hard to give it up in favor of hurried bathroom trips in stores and on the sides of roads.  We have a lot of progress still to make but this is a start and makes me feel less terrified of the huge task ahead.
 

Wednesday, July 2, 2014

Pre 4th Fun

It is July!  July 2nd!  Almost July 4th!  I love the 4th.  I don't think I need to explain it since I gush about it every year.  I probably won't be writing on here until next week and I can't think of much to update you with anyway.  There are big things happening in my head because my parents have started moving out of the house that I grew up in, a house that is over 100 years old and has been in our family since 1954, and moving in to their new house. It is a happy time and a long time coming but also sad and I am in the middle of processing it and need more time to really write about it.  It's just strange to think about.  The phone number that has always been ours is now obsolete as it rings in a vacated house (vacated of people, not belongings...not even close to vacated in that area!).  Seeing familiar furniture in a new house seems so weird and seeing my old bedroom without a bed is just disorienting.  But more about this later...

On Sunday there was a baby shower for my sister hosted by me and our college friends and I am finally able to reveal the quilt I made for her baby!  It's a girl, obviously...

 
It's not my most intricate or artistic work but she liked it!

 

 
Cousins and second cousins!

 
We throw a good party...

 
Here she is, at 7 months, looking huge...except she's not 7 months along. She's actually due in a few weeks!  Never mind!

This morning I had Ben and Tessa's pictures taken.  I haven't seen any of them yet but hopefully I will within the next few days.  Tessa was adorable and Ben was unruly.  So there were many nice shots of her and who knows what the photographer was able to catch of him.  This is Tessa's picture outfit.

 
That skirt has kittens on it! Oh Carter's, you keep delighting me!
 
If you are seeing me this weekend you will be presented with one of these confetti sugar cookies. 

 
I just ate one and I now I have to hide them because they are good.  Why do I do this to myself?
 
Finally, here is a little sequence from yesterday afternoon and evening.  Ben refused to nap at his usual time and ended up in a delirious meltdown for the rest of the evening until I happily put him to bed at 9. 



 
By the time he went to be he was just wailing various words, mostly involving his grandparents and various animals that he likes.  It was lovely.